Victor Francen
in Relationships
Open and generous, Victor Francen enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Francen rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Victor always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Victor Francen often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Francen, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Victor Francen to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Victor's aspirations and ideals. Victor Francen also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Victor Francen cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.
Victor Francen has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets him into trouble, as Victor takes risks on impulse or whim.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Victor Francen cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Francen's motto.
Although Victor Francen was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Victor's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Victor Francen flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Victor Francen feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Victor Francen to learn. Victor Francen should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.
His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Victor Francen that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Francen's neediness often drives others away. When Victor Francen does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Francen will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Victor Francen will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.
He is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Victor Francen immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. He may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.
Sensitive and sentimental, Victor Francen is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Francen to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Victor Francen seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Victor likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Victor Francen often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Victor. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Victor Francen may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Victor Francen - having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish some person or some aspect of an important love relationship.
Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because Victor Francen cannot or will not hold onto it. Victor Francen has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Francen's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Victor freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Francen could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.
Francen also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Victor Francen just wants to have a good time.
Victor Francen tends to be somewhat hypocritical and artificial and may even fool himself at times. His desires are likely to be a bit unrealistic and he may tries to hide his deception from others as well as from himself.
Victor does not hold back with his charms and shows everyone what he has to offer. His personality is quite dazzling and enables Victor Francen to attract many people. His need for affection is strong; and Francen will probably have very intense love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 5th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Opposition Neptune
Moon Opposition Pluto
Moon Opposition Neptune/Pluto
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 12th house
Venus Opposition Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Neptune/Asc.
Venus Conjunct Pluto/Asc.
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